tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post3606097390740150053..comments2024-02-25T05:42:39.006-05:00Comments on Ill-literature with Skillz to Blaze: A Good Man Ain't Too Hard To FindMark Skillzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17015788748086741155noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post-27396183339805190722006-11-15T12:53:00.000-05:002006-11-15T12:53:00.000-05:00hi anonymous at 12:25...My boys that married outsi...hi anonymous at 12:25...My boys that married outside of the race are from all walks of life: one guys in retail, one guys has been a sales rep for 10 years, some are in the music biz ... they're everyday guys that married average women (who are of another race).<br /><br />The only problem i have with inter-racial dating is when people go out of their way and won't even consider a person of their race. Which suggests a certain kind of sickness - not saying that that is your case, but I know people who say warped things like, "I won't even look at a black woman..."<br /><br />One of my aunts, whom i love dearly, told my sister to give up on black men and find a white man! Because black men are not serious or too much trouble. I thank God my sister married a black man!Mark Skillzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17015788748086741155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post-29625228740097354712006-11-15T12:34:00.000-05:002006-11-15T12:34:00.000-05:00I also forgot to mention the men who have been hur...I also forgot to mention the men who have been hurt from another relationship and just want to hang out without a committment<br />there is no easy cut and dry answer to these relationships.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post-54435707251135047142006-11-15T12:32:00.000-05:002006-11-15T12:32:00.000-05:00Dear Mark,
On your subject of "A Good Man Ain't ...Dear Mark,<br /> <br />On your subject of "A Good Man Ain't Hard To Find", firstly let's start with the birth ratio on this country is 6 females to 1 male. You forgot about the wars: drugs, gang-bangin' military, and the youth violence. <br /> <br />I must admit I do agree with you with the attitudes of some women, but you forgot about the strong black women that men are afraid of. The Sistas that don't take no S--t when brothas wanna bring it.<br /> <br />Sometimes the definition of a good man may vary, to you a good man might be as long as a brotha shows up every night at home before visiting other women/men friends and Sistas ain't tryin' to hear that S--t.<br /> <br />Our mothers and grandmothers lived with the fact that their men slept around because they were the bread winners in the house (most women in those times stayed home). With that information can we get your numbers a little more accurate?<br /> <br />I'm divorced and had 5 children, I grew into a strong woman, educated, intelligent and I intimidate most men. That is also a classification. <br /> <br />Question: How many men are really serious about settling down and be serious about relationships?<br /> <br />Answer: I would say not too many...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post-68398800934946024832006-11-15T12:30:00.000-05:002006-11-15T12:30:00.000-05:00So tru so truSo tru so truAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post-19007344600827550862006-11-15T12:28:00.000-05:002006-11-15T12:28:00.000-05:00Mark, I agree with you COMPLETELY!!! Women fail to...Mark, I agree with you COMPLETELY!!! Women fail to realize that what we put <br />out there comes to bite us in the (excuse my "American" a.k.a French) ass <br />later... Then we go to Oprah and other media outlets to down our men like <br />nobody's business... You are completely right. If more women would stop <br />trying to live the "American Dream" and realize that happiness really <br />doesn't always reside in what a man have, we would not be as screwed up as <br />we are now... People fail to realize that not only do these statistics that <br />come out are very biased and does not truly represent the whole population, <br />they (the statistics) also should not be taken so seriously... Anyway, I <br />agree. The bridging between the two sexes on this earth starts with <br />women's acceptance of hard working, "blue collar" men and men's realization <br />that it's okay if you don't make 6 figures. As long as you (men) take care <br />of your family's basic needs you are doing your "god-given" duty... Thanks.<br /><br />-Williette CoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15184716.post-8788529555997408712006-11-15T12:25:00.000-05:002006-11-15T12:25:00.000-05:00Mark:
I read your message below and have a questi...Mark:<br /><br />I read your message below and have a question for you. Your friends <br />who married outside of their race, how successful are they? Are <br />they bus drivers, post men??<br /><br />Would men settle for something they don't want or do they try to <br />reach out to the women that fit their expectations closely?<br /><br />I'm a 40 year old colored female... Beautiful, sexy, intelligent, <br />hard work, successful. If a man fall short of what I want... I will <br />pass. I tried in two marriages to take a short fall and look over <br />my expectations that just weren't there. And guess what... It <br />didn't work. Just as men seek fulfillment in looks, personalities, <br />compatibility, so should women. I have now started to date outside <br />my race and love it. There may be a shortage of black men but there <br />are a lot of men of other races that are waiting with bated breath <br />to sweep us off our feet. They treasure our beauty, our uniqueness <br />and our power to go exceedingly beyond expectations in all walks of <br />life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com